Why interracial dating is good
And, sorry to break it to you, interracial dating does fit that standard of normal!In today’s melting-pot society, you could easily argue (i.e.Increasing rates of interracial and interethnic marriage—from about 7 percent in 1980 to 15 percent in 2010 (Pew Research 2012)—are therefore indicative of improved race relations. "Educational Inequality, Homogamy, and Status Exchange in Black-White Intermarriage." American Journal of Sociology 115(4):1252-1263. If you were deeply in love with this handsome capable man but kinda poor and you both starts to date and you guys are in relationship going over to 4 years and then through your influence, you got him a job, he's working and a time comes, he is financially blessed but during this time, he starts being dodging you and on a fateful night, he tells you that he is tired being with you that you are kinda old and he doesn't wanna marry you........Still, rates of interracial marriage remain much lower than would exist if race were irrelevant to partner choice. "Trends in Black/White Intermarriage." Social Forces 72(1):119-146. what will be your reaction towards him???????????????????????????Yesterday, I got a couple comments from a reader who’s had to deal with a lot in her interracial relationship.
The fact that the term “interracial dating” exists just proves that it is an issue to date outside your race.
Maybe it isn’t even appropriate for your partner to talk to their family at all about their dating life.
Or maybe your partner has to go through almost a “coming out” process around dating someone white or outside of their culture.
That is, unless you count my first boyfriend – José – who, in the second grade, long-distance collect-called me from Puerto Rico and got me in a lot of trouble with my dad. But I think it’s worth revisiting these concepts within the context of romantic or sexual relationships. And the way we practice our allyship in those contexts should reflect that.
So, whether you’re years deep in a charmingly fairy tale-esque romance with your beau or you’re just now firing up to dive into your first, here are seven things to remember as a white person involved with a person of color.